Do you sometimes feel it’s too late for you to start again or that there are just no good men out there anymore?  

Sometimes you feel as though your anxiety takes over and you stay off the dating apps in fear of having to go through yet another break up. 

It feels lonely and hopeless. You feel vulnerable, exposed and sensitive. 

In relationships you have intrusive thoughts and you feel overwhelmed.

‘He’s settling for me because I fit the mould’ 

‘What if he is seeing other women’

‘I need to look sexy and amazing to keep his attention’

‘He hasn't text me all day, he's losing interest’

‘Does he REALLY mean what he says?’

You hide your vulnerable side in fear of pushing him away, you feel anger & resentment build up which ends in you both pulling away. 

Maybe you have what seem to be great starts to relationships with a gorgeous man that is all over you only to see it fizzle out all of a sudden? 

Months later you’re back on the apps and bored with all the messaging again…

When a new relationship becomes exclusive you start looking for signs that it's not right. 

You feel sensitive and anxiety kicks in. Hearts pumping, you feel lost, confused, worried and then the fear of abandonment becomes overwhelming. 

Thoughts race around like ‘is he pulling away?’ ‘Oh god not again.’ ‘I knew it.’ ‘I’m broken’, ‘I’m not good enough’, ‘something is wrong with me’….

I get it, I’ve been there, I know exactly how it feels and I’m here to tell you that you are not broken and you don’t need to change.

I can show you how to break the cycle.

How would it feel to be in the most unbelievable, deep connected relationship with a fantastic man that can't get enough of you?

Where you can really let go and be yourself. 

All your anxiety and vulnerability are no longer an issue and he actually WANTS to know your sensitive side.  

He SEES you, he cherishes your feelings and you can sink into the love he adorns on you. 

You feel completely safe and secure. It is like no other love you have ever experienced. 

The love you’ve always dreamed of.

What if you didn’t have to DO anything? 

What if you only had to BE vulnerable, sensitive, open & raw to feel strong and have everything you want from that place? 

How would it feel if you could simply relax and let a man take the lead and by just being you and being able to express all of you was the key to magnetising this dream love?

To be able to hone and trust your own natural guidance system and feel confident to recognise red flags and be attracted to men that step up, want to date you and make you happy?

There’s a lot of advice out there on dating and relationships and we often take advice from friends and family. It can sound a little like;

• Men have no idea

• You’re too good for him

• Just leave him

• Tell him why you’re angry and make him see what he’s doing wrong 

• Men don’t change

• Just tell the guy you like him and go for it!

• If you’re having doubts it must be a sign he's not the one

• Just message/call him!

• If he wanted to he would

Advice from friends and family often does not help. 

It can create confusion or worse, cause us to shut down, pull away from the man or push him away.

So when strong, independent women are taking care of themselves and working really hard to have successful careers and fulfilling lives it takes a lot of energy, and that’s our masculine energy.

I am a big advocate for women’s rights and believe we can do and have anything a man can.

Sometimes however, the mixture of masculine and feminine energy we all have becomes imbalanced.

This energy transfers over into dating and relationships.

We think that the more we do to please a man, the more he will love us. 

That the more we DO the more he will see our value.

We enter into relationships and start planning, organising and doing for the man in order to make him see how valuable we are in the hope that it will lead to our ‘forever’ relationship. 

But a man doesn’t fall in love with these things.

He falls in love when he can see that you feel safe to be with your feelings and he then feels safe to open up and be in his emotions around you.

The key to a man’s heart is your feelings. Simple right?

You have within you all that you need to attract a high value man and by adding to that a few tools and tweaks on how you communicate will change everything.

I can teach you the tools on how to regulate feelings of anxiety to be able to use them as an ally in love.

I guide you to recognise old patterns that hold you back so you feel strong and confident when dating.

You’ll learn to let your natural femininity shine out from you to attract your dream partner.

I do this all while holding your hand and being your biggest cheerleader with each step forward, always standing by your side. 

If you’re feeling fed up, over it and like you can't seem to figure it all out click this link and lets have a free ‘discovery session’ and I can show you how simple the way forward can be.